LOVE

if you find urself in love with someone who does not love you , 
be gentle with urself ..
there is nothing wrong with you ..
Love just didnt choose the rest in the other person's heart ..

if you find someone else in love with you and you dont love him or her , 
feel honored that love came and called at your door ..
but gently refuse the gift you cannot return ..
DO NOT TAKE ADVANTANGE , DO NOT CAUSE PAIN ..

If you fall in love with another , 
and he or she falls in love with you ..
and then love chooses to leave ,
do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame ..
JUST LET IT GO ..
there is a reason and there is a meaning ..
YOU WILL KNOW IN TIME ..

REMEMBER that YOU DONT CHOOSE LOVE , LOVE CHOOSES YOU !
all you can really do is accept it for all ..
its mystery when it comes into your life ..
feel the way it fills you to overflowing ..
then reach out and give it away ..

how you deal with love is how you deal with urself ..
and all our hearts feel the same pain and joys as you ,
even if our lives and ways are different ..

the first blush of new love is filled to overflowing ,
but as their love cools , 
they revert to seeing their love as need ..
they cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love ..